sexuality and spirituality

have you ever noticed that a church service is very much like the act of sex??? the rituals are like dating and or foreplay...the sermon is like making love...and the benediction is like lighting up a cigarette...other similarities : both can simulate intimacy without necessarily having it...both can attempt to reinforce ones self worth...or destroy ones self esteem...both can pretend it is about another...which may or may not be the case...there forces greater than you involved...(procreation and god)...and both can lead you into nakedness and transparency...yet both can become complete and utter hiding  places...in essence...people worship god like they have intercourse...and this can be a beautiful thing...or a perverse thing...but let's face it...for the majority...religion and sex...are ways of hiding and escaping...right???