another day another typical person

this young fellow confessed to me that he is gay...i listen...reassure him...give him understanding and comfort...and he despised me from that day forward...thinking , i believe...that if he could kill me...that would kill the part of himself that he was at war with...there ain't no neutral ground...those who love themselves will love others...those who despise themselves...will despise others...POINT : if someone is not actively working upon there spiritual development...that means they are not...which will , inevitably , make them violent in one way or another .