exchange

love is like the sun...it does not discriminate in regards to who it shines upon
dynamics :

1-god speaks
2-we obey
3-not because-someone deserves something
                     -get return
                     -bribe
4-brings joy
5-let go

making relationships an exchange is a counterfeit of love
how do we know when we are not using someone:

1-true love
2-fruitful relationship...extends to the healing of others
3-community...it is seen and respected by others
4-past records...if you have a trail of destruction...fair chance it is continuing 
5-ongoing humility...looking at self

exchanges will end sooner or later...love is eternal
live luv