discerning ones idenity part one

the way you do not discern ones identity is obvious...asking them...this is true because...1-they do not know who they are...2-they will bullshit you to get more leverage in "the game of life"...3-people are afraid of the consequences of honesty...point...knowledge of who you are dealing with is important and must be attained...not for selfish reasons...(if your motive is wrong...things will inevitably go wrong)...but so you can navigate to find safety and so you can do the most loving thing the circumstance allows...live love .