discerning ones idenity part two

people are more than willing to reveal themselves...however approach is contingent upon this happening...1-give them "power"...if they abuse it...this reveals , essentially , all about them...fact of the matter...you can discern just about every dynamic of ones sexuality by the way they handle power...2-show weakness...the vultures will indeed come out to play...and...3-the asshole factor...eventually we will all be seen as assholes for some reason or another...if they want to destroy someone for their personal frailties...sooner or later...they will want to destroy you...but remember...getting one to reveal all...is for the health of those involved...any malice...it will eventually backfire...live luv .