co-dependant blues

they say that 50% to 60% of marriages end in divorce...but heres the shit...it is a whole lot easier to get out of a good relationship than a bad one...fears , phobias , unmet needs , laziness , trying to find something a parent never gave...all this crap can work together to keep a relationship "functional"...the best way of keeping a child at home...be a bad parent...they will be looking for something from you until "the cows come home"...real love allows people the freedom to move and grow and become...not search for oblivious shit that they dont even know they are looking for...50% of marriages end in divorce??? my fucking ass they do...luv stu