why people leave...

IT IS VERY RARE FOR SOMEONE TO BE DOING SOMETHING FOR THE REASON THEY BELIEVE THEY ARE DOING IT...and even more so with relationships...THE UNIVERSE TAKES THEM ON A JOURNEY INTO AND AWAY FROM VARIOUS LIVES AT VARIOUS TIMES...NOT BEING ABLE TO REALLY COMPREHEND WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON...THEY MAKE UP STORIES AND REASONS IN THEIR MINDS AND HEARTS REGARDING WHY ALL THIS SHIT IS GOING DOWN...generally speaking...people need some justification of all their actions...and that justification is usually not there to reveal truth...no-sir-ee...it is there to convince the one who justifies...that they have control...WHICH THEY MOST  CERTAINLY DO NOT .