what rejected people do...

If someone wants to have sex with you ; and you believe it to be a bad idea ; from that point on , you will quite possibly be considered to be a target by that particular individual . That is to say , you have created an imbalance of power ; and they will smear you around until the "injustice" done to them has been neutralized . And here is the funny bit : the greater their infraction to the governing laws of the universe , the more you will have to pay for it . Wonderful , eh ???