sex is just about the only thing not about sex

these days...most things in life are about sex...but do you know what is not about sex??? sex...true story...it is usually about expressing anger...proving to ones self one is completely straight...dominating...working out all kinds of shit...and this should not be...there are many tools to lead one out of this pattern...avoiding religion is a big one...the power of real community is another...and so is masturbation...studying ones thought patterns and discovering the reasons behind them .