hate needs conflict or it is revealed...

when people live in fear and hate and the like...what they need is others to , essentially , bounce their energy off of...that is to say...life becomes a tug-of-war...("eye for an eye" type of thing)...and if the opponent decides to love , accept and forgive...ultimately , this means that the proverbial rope has been dropped...and the person on the other end is stranded and naked...left to be seen as the person that they really are..."THIS CANNOT HAPPEN" is the claim of the perpetrator of the crime...and all out war begins...hence , we have the crucifixion of christ  made manifest in a lesser situation .