we are being held together by all kinds of stuff...not the least of which is our unhealthy relationships...christ alone knows what would happen if we were to drop our neurotic shit -fests without warning to ourselves .

am i condoning unhealthy relationships ??? good heavens no...but point is simple : it is better to pull over to the side of the road slowly...than to yank it into reverse at 70 miles per hour...get the drift ???