what things appear to be and what they are is seldom the same thing :
1-see something that makes us feel uncomfortable
2-want to control it
3-want it to make us feel good and or powerful
4-want to put as little effort into understanding it as possible
5-make a conclusion
6-institutionalize it
7-push it on others
it is simply easier to praise sex in marriage and judge sex outside of marriage...than it is to dive into the realm of abstract thought and thinking about things...yet the truly loving individual has to cast aside the idea of judging the appearance and thus begin the journey of entering the heart and soul of himself and of those around him .
(you will know you are seeing what is there and not simply making a judgement...when your attitude is not only founded in love...but able to restrain from imposing itself upon those around you ).
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