Thursday, January 31, 2013

using people

essentially...they came for the loaves and fish...then left when it got inconvenient

dynamics :

1-unmet needs
2-find someone to meet them
3-pretend it is about them...(not self seeking)
4-convince ourselves
5-use
6-throw away when no longer needed
7-justify

this is opposed to love :

1-jesus...love is first
2-others...form healthy boundaries...this will be abused
3-self...if you don't love yourself...you cannot love others 

use things...love people...not the other way around
"greater love has no man than this...that he lays down his life for his brother"

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