funerals and regrets november 24 2012

mourning can be sadness and the sincere loss of a loved one...but most of the time..these are just qualities intertwined with a deep longing and regret for the way things should have been...but were not...that is to say...we take our...fears...conventions...secrets...ill feelings...and lack of resolution into our relationships...never really attempt to do anything about them...and wonder why there are 15 walls to every one bridge...and wonder why we fall apart at the end of their life...INDEED..there are far healthier things to take into a relationship...like...transparency...boldness...freedom...and a desire to resolve personal hurt...(effecting ourselves and all around us)...IN THE END...the more we love...the less we regret...and the more a departure of a loved one...can be a celebration of a life well lived .