generally speaking...people think that other people are there for their gratification
dynamics :
1-desire
2-make desire your idol
3-sacrifice : feelings / worth / future
4-blame
5-manipulate new environment to fit new (twisted) universe
joy is now gone...replaced by : addictions / materialism / self gratification
there is a better way :
1-turn around
2-find one person...the residue of a deep unconditional love for one...will be transferred onto all other relationships to one extent or another
3-put them first
4-suffer and learn...love is both reaching into another universe...(suffering)...and light...(learning)
5-begin to see...and understand
6-extrapulate
7-love eternally...with healthy boundaries
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