community

four levels of community :

1-manipulation...control
2-politeness...no real issues dealt with
3-void...confusion
4-real...(transparency...acceptance...love)

in real community...your life will affect others profoundly
types of pain :

1-immaturity
2-consequences of living...(someone dies , for example)
3-refusal to learn


if one person...in the context of real community...refuses to learn the art of love...all will be affected...(one drop of poison will contaminate the entire jug of water)...most people will be "happier" in the framework of one of the first three levels of community...that is to say..."a dog always returns to its vomit"...people will gravitate to what they have been exposed to and find little or no need to grow...and if that is what they want...fine...the issue is...they usually attempt to pass this off as level 4 community...which , of course , it is not...and the real danger in life comes in when one is blinded to the reality that one is abiding in .