why we abandon each other

why people abandon each other :

1-better deal
2-laziness
3-pride...cannot see the other as a real human being 

so people leave what god has given them
opposed to good reasons :

1-it is time
2-abuse
3-death

your strength is not supposed to be a good reason to fuck up your life
(it often is what empowers us  to do whatever we desire)
question...how do we stay in relationships when we don't need to???

1-prayer
2-humility
3-integrity
4-being accountable
5-being accountable

" the same person who abandons you when you are down and out...is the same person who demands your friendship when your life is shining "