two kingdoms

the generic kingdom :

1-meet each others needs-sex
                                      -money
                                      -power
2-things are hidden
3-generic behavior is established as a way of hiding...a.k.a...religion of some sort or another 
4-activity based...allows things to be concealed
5-behavior negotiated

the organic kingdom :
                            
1-needs second to love
2-transparency
3-grow and learn
4-activities secondary...a way of building bridges opposed to an end to themselves ...the heart is exposed
5-love is cultivated...and the individual is revealed more and more

there is only love to keep an organic relationship together...many things can keep a generic relationship together...but if god is for you...who can be against you???