why people abandon each other :
1-better deal
2-laziness...love takes effort
3-pride...cannot see the other as a real human being
so people leave what god has given them...for selfish reasons
opposed to good reasons :
1-it is time
2-abuse
3-death
your strength is not supposed to be a good reason to fuck up your life
(it often is what empowers us to do whatever we desire)
question...how do we stay in relationships when we don't need to???
1-prayer...love in the midst
2-humility...sees all
3-integrity...the "better deal" dynamic is a form of lust...same with laziness and pride
4-being accountable...community is life
5-being accountable...alone...we will all be deceived..."it takes a friend to tell a friend that he is pissing in the wind"...(neil young)
...it all comes down to real love
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