suffering for greater love

so you begin the journey of love...only to discover that it hurts...(love is not of this universe...it is from another...and the journey of bringing it into this finite universe...means to suffer)...but you do it anyway...fact of the matter is...nobody is any greater (or worse) than their own personal journey and what they have to overcome...in the final analysis...to learn the art of love...is to pay a great price...however...as true love replaces the selfish ambition and other such garbage within...our spirit begins to grow...and the size that our spirits manifest in heaven...is the same size they grew to on earth.