the way most develop a relationship...is to subscribe to
rituals...formulas...mechanisms...and the like...to allow the
relationship to...more or less...be some type of dramatic play...the
result...though there is no true life and joy...it can indeed sustain
itself indefinitely if all agree upon the
rules...YET THERE IS A BETTER WAY :
1- a relationship
2-throw away the formula...and allow each other to see inside the hearts and souls of all involved
3-discovery...humility...vulnerability...effort
4-embrace the attributes of love : peace , joy , loyalty , self control , etc.
5-grow and become
our purpose in life...is to really love each other...yet if you take a good look around...just about everything we encounter...is set up to detour us from this objective...that is to say...love ins never about gain or self...in fact... the only self involved...is dying to self...becoming a human channel for a spirit totally consumed with LOVE...to pass and work through us...as interrupted as possible .
"falling in love...should never get in the way of loving"
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