life is a paradox

have you ever noticed that...in terms of the spiritual dynamic of life...everything is actually the opposite of what it seems...allow me to explain...to truly get love you have to give it away...to find your identity...you must lose yourself in an eternal love....you are free...when you are bound to another...you dont get beauty by grabbing it...no more than you screw to become a virgin...indeed...life is one paradox after another.