mid east relationship

a lady friend of mine recently had a long distant internet relationship with an individual in the mid east...love grew...things happened...and....as always...truth was revealed...the truth this time however was not what my friend expected...you see...the fine young man she was having intimate relationships with...turned out to be a woman...here is the shit..."cats and dogs"...don't try to be anything other than yourself...joy is only found in truth...and the truth about yourself...is all you have to give...anything else...there is no connection...in the immortal words of james taylor..."b.s.u.r.".