discovering anothers soul part 2

although people are not terribly interested in revealing themselves by use of their cognitive processes...this does not change the obvious...they , non-the -less...are who they are...and are more than willing to give you this information if you know how to get it...so how??? 1-power...allow the power to be shifted...just a tad...in their general direction...if power is an issue with them...they will not be able to resist...it is the nature of the sickness...2-weakness...we are all weak...just reveal this aspect of who you are... just a bit will do...and see what happens...just like power...being an emotional predator is a sickness...and will not remain hidden if given the chance...3-the "ass hole" factor...what do they think of "ass holes"??? do they have mercy??? do they keep safe boundaries yet still care...or do they want to annihilate??? point...we will all sooner or later be "ass holes" to most people...the question is...will they want to murder us for it...or will they care???