use or be used - sept . 4 2010

most are happy to use or be used...this is what we refer to as a "successful marriage"...anyway...the shit really hits the fan when both want to use...or both want to be used...now...come divorce court...it is never put in these terms...there is always some piece of bullshit that hides the terrible ugly truth...sad...maybe if the truth could actually be embraced...there could be the possibility of healing...luv stu

dynamics :

1-a hole is created within
2-needs manifest
3-all is distorted to pretend this is a good thing...opposed to neurotic
4-"fall in love"
5-works for a while because needs are being met
6-truth rears its ugly head
7-choices to be made-justify
                               -blame
                               -leave
                               -become numb
                               -become aware and grow and learn

live luv