these days...the general population seems to feel that just about anything is reasonable human behavior...that is...until you love someone intimately...fully...completely...with no sexual dynamic what-so-ever...this fucks people up like my mothers home made wine...the question is...why does intimacy have this type of effect upon people???
the answer is...people are terrified of anything they do not understand .
dynamics :
1-children attempt to love in this type of way
2-pain is introduced
3-they fold
4-love substitutes are introduced...co-dependency...meaningless sex...power relationships , etc.
5-institutionalized
6-intimacy is now seen as a threat...(but if you are screwing...they will let you "off the hook")
7-defend with violence...(all lies are accompanied with violence)
a couple points in conclusion...first...family relationships do not count...our biology demands we have intimacy here...it is a very sick individual that goes against this...and secondly...pretending you are intimate does not count either...down deep inside...we all know who the impostors are...and they are let off the proverbial hook as well .
it all comes down to this...intimacy is not only difficult...but it is a taboo in our society...and not only that...but we pretend it is not...so...GOOD LUCK .
OH , BY THE WAY...i forgot to tell you...it is just about the only thing worth pursuing .
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