quite often my role in this universe has been that of a father figure...here is how it frequently plays out :
1-befriend another
2-the relationship grows
3-patterns form
4-the "father figure" emerges
5-unaware of hatred for father
6-abuse occurs
7-abuse is denied
8-lies and deception cover things up
9-institutionalize the relationship...(reality is replaced by ritual)
10-the relationship either ends...or becomes a cancer
11-regardless...a world of hurt
the truth of the situation is that there is nothing wrong with the first six dynamics...however...when the hurt begins to manifest...it is then that things have to be looked at and engaged with true humility...remember...pain is supposed to be our friend...we are to look at our pain...see why it is there...and then begin the journey...in love...of resolving it...live luv .
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