projection

...so i am on the phone attempting to help this young lady through some marriage problems...and it suddenly occurs to me...the phone is tapped...so i tell her...two weeks later she finally has the long awaited "blow out" with her husband...as it turns out...not only was the phone tapped...but he was also involved in an affair...let me get this straight...he was the one cheating on her...and he was also the one who hired a detective...this is life...we see in others who we are...luv stu