intimacy part 4

the solution

love will cost you everything...but do it anyway...it is your soul that is at stake...and as you continue the journey of love...intimacy becomes more and more a part of your personhood...live luv .

intimacy part 3

the struggle

real intimacy takes courage...pain..self sacrifice...things that most will not adventure into...it is too hard...instead...they embrace what i refer to as love substitutes...DYNAMICS :1-children attempt love....2-it becomes obvious that this indeed is a difficult road...3-they fold...4-love substitutes are introduced...mutual needs are being met...it is not perfect...yet at times there is quite a measure of success...5-this is institutionalized and patterns are reinforced...6-the situation is defended with violence...(usually a calm systematic form of violence)...7-at this point...real intimacy is seen as a threat...which brings us back to the beginning .

intimacy part 2

the situation

people understand people using people...it is simply what happens around this planet...they understand cheating...being co-dependent...all of this type of behavior...however...when someone loves to simply love...no return...(or so it seems)...people do not have a point of reference...therefore...they find it difficult to deal with...SOMETHING MUST BE WRONG !!!

intimacy part 1

the question

i had this friend once...we were in a very intimate non-sexual relationship...people were concerned...now...if we were in a homosexual relationship...there would be far less concern...and if we were in a homosexual relationship and we were cheating on our spouses...statically speaking...less concern there too...question...why does intimacy "freak people out?"

June 2

leaving control

being human part 23

i was at a pagan wedding once...i got up to pray...the best man fainted...someone threw a cup of liquid across the room...(i think that too was the best man)...and then it got really bizarre...i am not reading a whole lot into this...i have seen worse weddings , to be honest...what is paganism??? well...most of western christianity is in fact pagan...that is...the essence of paganism is control...the essence of spirituality is , however , the absence of control...what i love about pagans??? they are honest about their intent...if you want to control...fine...do it...just call it what it is...there is nothing horribly wrong with it...however...love lets go...live love .

how to smoogle your boogle

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for millions of years now...people from all classes and cultures...have been boogling by themselves or with those they are in relationship with...and having a hell of a lot of fun , i must say...but here is the shit , dear puppy-cats...although people have been boogling...not too many are ever aware that they can potentially smoggle their boogle...and that is where i come in...for a low price of 25 dollars...i will give you all the information that you need...so you can potentially smoogle your boogle...until the cows come home...i know what has been said...smoogling your boogle will cause you to go blind...bullshit...this is nothing but a rumor that was started by the second church of the holy werewolf of the circumcised peanut head dingo...a manipulative attempt to de-smooglize society...and thereby control the cross fertilization of the three horned  crayon ferret...and the seven legged utah bastard  monkey...i  mean...any fool can figure that one out...if god did not want you to smoogle your boogle...then he never would have given you a boogle to smoogle...and then there are those fucking vampires...let me ask you this...if those vampires are such hot shit...then how come they do not have any teeth??? point...send me your money...and begin the ancient and somewhat lost art...of smoogling your boogle...sincerely...captain babot smageldwit of the foothills of the great manitoba mountains .